It’s “the Quiet Christmas”. The readings finally point to the birth of the Messiah. Without all the meals and parties, the simple, profound truth of God visiting our world can sink into us. Joseph and Mary, in today’s gospel, each follow the Lord’s promptings “quietly”, even when it was very stressful for them, and found “God with them”. Today’s gospel shows Joseph doing a brave and loving thing in taking Mary as his wife. For many today, cultural and social demands on our time or our emotions become wearying, even unbearable for some. I proclaim that this feast is a commitment of God to visiting and taking up residence with each of you. Take time today, and during this long last Advent week, to joyfully read the whole Christmas stories in Matthew and Luke.

This has been another year of slow growth out of, and setbacks in, the pandemic and its effects on us with continued cautionary steps. We have resumed a number of activities (Monicafest, Wedding Anniversary Mass, Auction). We still have a strong schedule of Baptisms continuing. Our school has seen an influx of new students and families. We are underway with Strategic Planning critical to our growth and flourishing, and deep into the Archdiocesan “All things New”. Our parishioners reflect the constant prayer and dedication of our patron, St. Monica. All this reflects that in a time still marked by uncertainties, we have a shared sense that God is among us, and will not fail us. That’s Christmas!

This late in the season, I also want to encourage you to take care of yourself a bit. The season has pres- sures and difficult times for some. Take a few moments with the beautiful Advent scriptures; do a Holy Hour (or even just a few minutes ) at home, or in our Wednesday Adoration Time. Discuss at dinner, or with a friend, what spiritual gift you are hoping for this Christmas, to see that the peace and love we really celebrate are yours. There is much to be hopeful, and joyful, for!

Note on the priests’ preparation: This week, I’m in full “Christmas Retreat” mode, and will be preparing full-time for the Christmas liturgies and homilies, not doing “business as usual”. Please support

Fr. Tim and I in this and let the staff assist you in any non-emergency issues, or defer them till after the holidays. And ready yourself too, as above.

–This column was submitted early according to an early bulletin deadline so doesn’t reflect any activities of the last two weeks.

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